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Abomination: My husband cannot impregnate a woman. “I slept with my son to give my husband a child’ says Matina Agawua

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….how she lured 16-year-old son to bed

It sounds abominable in every sense of the word that a woman would sleep with her own biological son just to test her fertility after failing to get pregnant for her husband in her second marriage.

But that was exactly the case with Matina Agawua, a native of Yelwata, a remote settlement in Nasarawa State. She slept with the son she had from her first marriage to please her new husband who was threatening an end to their relationship if she would not conceive a baby.

Matina, who lost her first husband to herdsmen attack after they were married for about two years, had just a son and decided to remarry after spending 13 years as a widow.

But for more than six years after getting married to her second husband, an indigene of Toto Local Government Area of Nasarawa state identified simply as Mr. James, she could not conceive a child for what she said was no fault of hers.

“We had been married for more than six years but were still childless due to my husband’s fault, according to doctor’s report, and I was hearing from the grapevine that he was planning to take a second wife on the grounds that I could not give him a child” Matina told our correspondent.

Trouble was said to have begun when Matina got married to her first husband, Mr Philip (now late), and the marriage was blessed with just a child before Philip died from a gunshot when some herdsmen invaded his village about two years later.

After Philip’s death, Matina had picked up courage to remain in the village since she had a son with her late husband. But owing to some irreconcilable differences between her and her husband’s relatives, she left the village and returned to Yelwata, her maternal home where she started a mini restaurant to eke out a living for herself and her only child.

Because of the remote nature of the community, however, the business was slow, hence she relocated to Lafia, the Nasarawa State capital where the business appeared to thrive better. It was in the course of selling food that she met James, her second husband, and they later got married.

But the marriage ran into a storm over its continued failure to produce a child that would cement the bond between them. In fact, matters got worse as Matina appeared to be giving more attention to her son than she was giving her second husband, causing James’s parents to feel that Matina was simply wasting their son’s time as she was incapable of bearing a child.

James’s mother was said to be particularly unhappy about the situation as she had eagerly looked forward to carrying her grandchild when the marriage was consummated. But six years down the line, there was no sign of pregnancy, much less a baby. Thus a plan commenced to get James a second wife.

At this point, Matina had joined resources with her husband’s to build a house in Lafia where they lived, with the implication that the new wife would occupy one of the rooms while Matina claims that she committed more resources to the project than her husband.

Amid the frosty relationship, accusations and counter accusations created by the development, the couple did not deem it necessary to go for a medical check-up to ascertain the source of the problem.

Matina however blamed James for the oversight, saying that she was willing togo forfertilitytest but her husband was not. She said she suspected that her husband was suffering from low sperm count which made him unable to father a child.

Matina said she had undergone a test on her own since her husband refused to go for one, and the result showed that there was nothing wrong with her fertility. But to furtherconvince herself about her fertility status, she decided to lure her own son, a student in Akwanga, into a secret affair with a stem warming that he should not reveal it to anyone.

Matina said she did not want to fall in love with an outsider so as not to betray her husband or make him feel bad.

She said: “Since he is not comfortable with us going for medical checkup on the assumption that nothing was wrong with him, I decided to convince my little son, who is just about 16 years old and schooling in Akwanga

“I visited him regularly. He stays in a private apartment with my relatives, so I was going there to spend some time with them, especially on weekends when my market is off.

“It was actually difficult making love with my own son, but circumstances forced me to go into it. I needed to be sure of my fertility.

“I know my husband very well. If he discovered I had an affair with a man outside, he would kill me.

“I love him so much and I’m afraid of him, so this evil plan kept ringing in my mind to know how fertile I am.”

“I tried to visit my son in Akwanga mostly when I was on my ovulation period. I decided to develop a crush on him and draw him very close to me. We got intimate and ended up having sex.

“One faithful day while I was on my ovulation period, I visited him. It was at about 11pm. I held his hand and made him sit beside me.

“I asked him if he had ever had sex and he said no. I held him in my arms. This time, I felt warm and I think he too did.

“After that night, I felt extremely embarrassed, and guilty that I committed such an abomination with my own son.

“It was actually a taboo, but I warned him to keep it secret.

“I didn’t do it for any other reason than emotional turmoil.

Matina told our correspondent that she didn’t actually have sex with her husband for about three months, “because we were feeling a little disconnected from each other and boredom crept into our relationship

“But from that singular session with my son, l missed my period that very month of January 2022, and a medical test showed that I was pregnant.”

When she broke to her husband what ordinarily should be a piece of good news, he denied being responsible for it and suspected a foul play. James reminded her that they had not had an affair for about three months, wondering how that could have resulted in a pregnancy.

The development led to suspicions which created a big crisis in the family, prompting a friend to suggest that they should subject themselves to medical tests to ascertain the paternity of the unborn child.

The test at Dalhatu Araf Specialist Hospital Lafia shows that the husband is not the father of the child. Matters got worse as the test further revealed that her husband has weak and very low sperm count that would not enable him to father a child.

As soon as these details were made known to the husband, he became angry, accusing his wife of adultery and threatening her life, which made her to open up on the details of the pregnancy.

Not satisfied, the husband summoned Matina’s son who underwent the same test confirming that he is actually the father of the unborn child.

Matina, who spoke to our correspondent after persistent pressure, said: “I am not a loose woman. I am just a woman who loves her husband very much and didn’t want to hurt or lose him.

“I did what I did to save my marriage. I got reliable information that he was planning to take a second wife on the advice of his parents and that the wife would occupy one of the apartments we suffered to build together.

“I was not comfortable with that idea and felt I could test my fertility with my son and impose it on him (husband).

“I did that to get him a child and to stop him from taking a second wife. Taking a second wife is an indirect way of pushing me away, losing all we have suffered to put together.

“Look at my age. I’m not getting younger and my husband was not prepared to address the matter medically.

“Look at the result of the test; it shows low sperm count. There is no way he would have been able to impregnate me.

“I know I was doing the wrong thing and betraying my husband, but I saw it as a lesser evil than going outside.

“Now the man is even threatening to kill my son for impregnating me, so I had to move my son out of Akwanga and take him somewhere else to save his life.

“This is more so because I was the one who put him into the whole mess. I have to protect him. ”

Matina’s husband said he would not accept a pregnancy that did not emanate from him. “Even sleeping under the same roof with him is scary; he might harm me in the middle of the night.

“He is very furious, so I have to leave the house for him. But all I want is that since he didn’t like me again for what I have done, I won’t abort it. Rather, I will allow it and deliver my baby. I have been looking for it for long, so I won’t let it go. It belongs to my son.

“I have decided to keep it because it is blood within my blood. I will keep it. All I want is that since the marriage didn’t work, we should sell the house, share the proceeds and everyone will go his way.”

Matina said she has documents containing the house and bank transactions used in building the house.

“I will engage a lawyer if my husband tries to do anything funny. He should not take me for granted as I’m prepared for him.

“He can’t father a child. His sperm count is very low and he is not ready to address it. What does he want me to do?”

When our correspondent contacted the husband, he expressed disappointment that the wife had opened up on all the secrets to the outside.

“Why did she go to the media? he queried

“How can she allow her son to impregnate her and try to foist it on me? How would she do that? That is my anger.

“But if she is ready to go, let her go. We built the house together and whatever she wants, I don’t have an issue with that.

“But I can tell you, that woman is a dangerous woman to stay with.”

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Tinubu @ 3: How REA Is Expanding Energy Access to Support Nigeria’s $1 Trillion Vision

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For decades, achieving economic independence in Nigeria has been limited by a fundamental deficit: access to reliable electricity.

In rural and peri-urban communities, often referred to as the “last mile,” small businesses, agro-processors, and households have historically survived on costly, polluting petrol generators or lived in complete darkness. However, a silent revolution has been taking place across the country. Led by the Rural Electrification Agency (REA), decentralized renewable energy solutions are systematically closing the energy gap. Driven by bold policy shifts and unprecedented private sector funding, the REA’s mini-grid solutions are not just illuminating homes, they are serving as a critical infrastructure backbone to catalyze the Central Bank of Nigeria’s (CBN) ambitious target of achieving a $1 trillion economy.

This rapid transformation underscores the strategic vision of the current administration. As President Bola Ahmed Tinubu marks his third year in office, this milestone stands as a testament to his administration’s foresight. By recognizing early on that the fragile national grid could not single-handedly carry the weight of Nigeria’s industrial ambitions, the President prioritized decentralized energy solutions to intentionally ease the burden on the national grid.

Of notable mention is Mr President’s appointment of Dr. Abba Aliyu as the Managing Director of the REA. Abba’s appointment has injected a much-needed dose of technocratic competence, corporate governance and execution speed into the agency, effectively turning a bottleneck into a launchpad for national growth.

Historically, the mention of the REA in Nigeria’s public discourse was frequently tied to headlines of systemic corruption, contract inflation, and abandoned projects. For years, the agency operated as a black box where public and international donor funds vanished into ghost electrification schemes, leaving rural communities in perpetual darkness.

Today, transparency has become the order of the day. At the heart of this institutional transformation is the deployment of advanced digital data platforms including the REA Project Monitoring and Performance Hub (MPH), the Nigeria SE4ALL web platform, and specialized tracking architectures managed alongside data partners like Odyssey. By utilizing real-time IoT (Internet of Things) remote monitoring and data portals, the REA tracks precisely how much power is generated and which communities are connected. This data-first architecture ensures full accountability to international donors, eliminates ghost projects, and guarantees that disbursements are strictly tied to verified performance.

Under the leadership of Dr. Abba Aliyu, Nigeria’s off-grid sector has undergone a massive structural shift, moving from a heavy reliance on imported technology to becoming a regional manufacturing powerhouse. Driven by deliberate government policies aimed at de-risking private capital, Nigeria’s installed local solar panel production capacity has skyrocketed from 120 megawatts (MW) to approximately 300MW.

With an additional 3.7 gigawatts (GW) of capacity currently in the development pipeline, Nigeria is fast positioning itself to anchor West Africa as a renewable energy manufacturing hub. Locally manufactured solar panels are already being exported from industrial corridors like Lagos to regional neighbors like Accra, Ghana.

This domestic manufacturing surge is underpinned by a groundbreaking regulatory environment. The Nigerian Electricity Regulatory Commission’s (NERC) Mini-Grid Regulations have expanded the allowable capacity for interconnected mini-grids to 10MW. By defining exactly how mini-grids interact with the main national grid, Nigeria has established one of the most progressive and investor-friendly regulatory frameworks in Africa, one that is currently being studied and replicated by countries like Mozambique, Benin Republic, Burkina Faso, and Niger.

At the center of REA’s current aggressive rollout is the Distributed Access through Renewable Energy Scale-Up (DARES) programme, widely recognized as the largest publicly funded renewable energy access initiative globally.

DARES is an ambitious $750 million initiative structured to pull an additional $1.1 billion in private sector investments through a results-based financing model. Under this mechanism, private developers must fully mobilize and deploy their own capital to build functioning energy infrastructure before unlocking financial incentives.

The impacts of the DARES initiative are aggresively mapped toward radical socio-economic transformation, aiming to provide clean, reliable electricity to over 17.5 million Nigerians, power over 2.5 million households across the federation, and launch 1,350 mini-grids, including 250 interconnected systems.

As at today, over 1000 mini grids are being developed across the country. Additionally, 48 Interconnected mini-grids are being deployed that will inject additional 288MW of clean reliable capacity are being deployed in collaboration with 11 Distribution Companies.

The REA has gone further to unlock private finance through partnerships with institutions like FCMB, Lotus Bank, and the International Finance Corporation (IFC), creating an expansive, decentralized energy ecosystem capable of sustaining itself long after public funds are exhausted.

The expansion of last-mile electrification directly intersects with macroeconomic objectives. The CBN’s blueprint for a $1 trillion economy relies heavily on boosting productivity in agriculture, expanding MSMEs (Micro, Small, and Medium Enterprises), and scaling up local manufacturing. The REA’s mini-grid solutions act as an economic multiplier for this vision in three distinct ways.

Firstly, it unlocks the agricultural value chain.

A significant portion of Nigeria’s wealth resides in its rural agrarian communities, which suffer from high post-harvest losses due to a lack of cold storage and processing facilities. By deploying solar mini-grids to agricultural hubs, the REA enables the operation of solar-powered mills, irrigation pumps, and cold storage units. This transitions subsistence farming into a commercialized, high-yield industry, drastically boosting rural GDP contribution.

Secondly, it reduces MSMEs operating costs.

High inflation and currency fluctuations heavily penalize businesses reliant on imported fuel for generators. Replacing petrol and diesel with predictable, cheaper solar energy immediately frees up operational capital for millions of small businesses such as salons, tailoring shops, welding centers, and healthcare facilities. These saved costs are directly reinvested into expanding operations and hiring more local labor.

Furthermore, the scale-up of mini-grid capacities to 10MW allows for the strategic deployment of large solar farms in border towns. This positions Nigeria to engage in cross-border electricity trade, selling off-grid power to neighboring West African border communities. This opens up entirely new foreign exchange revenue streams, strengthening the Naira and boosting regional trade volumes in line with sub-regional economic integration goals.

In addition, the REA signed a $700,000 Memorandum of Understanding (MoU) with the Economic Community of West African States (ECOWAS) Commission to electrify healthcare centers and 15 public universities across the Federal Capital Territory (FCT), Niger, and Nasarawa states. This initiative has already begun yielding tangible results, with active projects rolling out across institutions like the Federal University of Technology, Akure (FUTA).

The Rural Electrification Agency’s mini-grid solutions have evolved beyond basic social welfare into a primary driver of industrialization and economic formalization. By taking electricity to the last mile, the REA is activating trapped economic potential in regions that the traditional grid could not reach.

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Eid-el-Kabir: Let’s Peace, Unity And Selflessness Be Our Watchword, Olowu Urges Muslim Ummah, Nigerians

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Olowu of Kuta, HRM Oba Dr Hammed Makama Oyelude, CON, Tegbosun iii, has urged muslim Ummah and Nigerians to let peace , unity and selflessness be their watchword as the world observe the Eid-el-Kabir

The reverred monarch in his sallah message said Eid-el-Kabir remains a highly spiritual occasion that calls for dedication, commitment, and selflessness.
According to him, ” this is the time to reflect on the going on around us and preach messages of hope and unity devoid of any provocation.”
Oba Makama urged Nigerians to live together peacefully, irrespective of religious, political, and tribal affliation.
While calling on politicians to exercise restraint and refrain from any rhetoric that may inflame passion as we approach 2027 general elections, Oba Makama said what should be uppermost in the mind of every patriotic Nigerian is “Country first.”
The monarch, while wishing every Nigerian a peaceful celebration, maintained that people should be vigilant and not be overwhelmed by the insecurity, adding that armed forces and other para military forces are working round the clock to ensure hitch free celebration.
” The price wise men pay for eternal liberty is to be vigilant. I urged everyone to be moderate in celebration and reach out to the less privileged, widows and orphans “as our brothers and sisters keeppers,” Olowu added.

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Tinubu Emerges APC Presidential Candidate After Nationwide Direct Primary

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….President Tinubu polls 10,999,162 votes, declared winner.

The ruling All Progressives Congress (APC) has declared President Bola Ahmed Tinubu the winner of its presidential primary election ahead of the 2027 general elections.

The party commenced the collation of results from its nationwide presidential shadow election at the Bola Ahmed Tinubu International Conference Centre in Abuja following the conclusion of voting on Saturday, May 23.

In a significant shift from the delegate-based system often associated with controversy, the APC adopted a direct primary method for the exercise. The election was conducted simultaneously across the party’s 8,809 wards in the 36 states and the Federal Capital Territory (FCT).

Under the direct primary system, all registered members of the party were eligible to vote for their preferred presidential aspirant, a move party leaders described as part of efforts to strengthen internal democracy and encourage wider grassroots participation.

The final stage of the process is being supervised by a seven-member Presidential Primary Election Committee chaired by former Senate President, Senator Anyim Pius Anyim.

Other members of the committee include former Senate President Ken Nnamani, Grace Titi Laoye-Ponle, former Speaker of the House of Representatives Yakubu Dogara, former Kogi State Governor Idris Wada, and Sanusi Musa, who serves as the committee secretary.

The atmosphere at the Bola Ahmed Tinubu International Conference Centre remained charged as governors, party chairmen, and designated collation officers arrived to present certified results from their respective states before the Anyim-led committee.

Governors coordinating the exercise in their states took turns presenting the official results as the party concluded the nationwide primary process.

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