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Inside the ‘risky’ life of Bobrisky

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Bobrisky’s story is not easy to tell. The first problem is deciding what pronoun to use. By the circumstances of his birth, ‘he’ is the right pronoun, but by what Bobrisky has chosen, ‘she’ is correct.

“Tani bro e? (Who is your bro?). I’m a fine babe,” Bobrisky once replied a commentator who referred to him as a man.

There is also no agreement on whether or not he is a transvestite or just a crossdresser.

Who is Bobrisky?

A primary school mate said he had always behaved like a woman trapped in a man’s body.

In a video, which was uploaded on YouTube on January 19, 2018, a dark man sporting a white bathrobe on a white t-shirt, is sitting on a brown sofa.

There is a gold chain around his neck and in his right hand is a wad of N1,000 notes and a glass of wine.

He pulls out note after note with his left hand and places it on the waist of a light-skinned dancer in a black tight-fitting trouser and crop top, shaking a slim bottom in his face.

The man kisses the tips of his left palm and touches the dancer’s waist excitedly before the video stops playing.

The video is titled ‘Bobrisky twerking for her sugar daddy’.

The dancer in the 11-second video is popular transvestite, Idris Olanrewaju Okuneye, popularly known as Bobrisky, his name on social media platform, Snap Chat.

Idris, from Ijebu Igbo in Ogun State, was born male on August 31, 1992 at Ebute Meta, Lagos Mainland.

He attended secondary school at the prestigious King’s College, Lagos, before bagging a BSc from the University of Lagos (UNILAG).

He was a very good dancer, choreographer and make-up artist at the university. In May 2019, Bobrisky stated on his instagram profile that his pronouns are “she” and “her”.

Going viral

It is not clear when Idris became the cross-dressing Bobrisky, but he went viral in October 2016, when President Muhammadu Buhari’s social media aide, Bashir Ahmad, pulled out of appearing with him on a social media panel in Abuja.

“The organisers invited me to speak on the fact that people are talking about Bobrisky,” the then 25-year-old told AFP.

He added: “Withdrawing wasn’t nice. In Nigeria, the majority of people here judge you so fast.”

According to AFP, he often recounted online how his lifestyle was funded by a rich, mystery man he referred to only as “bae.

A few years earlier, a video surfaced of Bobrisky being stripped by the police of the female clothing he was wearing. Two sachets of water – pseudo breasts – were pulled out of the low neck gown.

Controversies

Bobrisky, who turned 28 on Saturday, fled his Lekki, Lagos neighbourhood to evade arrest following the deployment of policemen to scuttle his planned birthday celebrations.

He had planned a birthday bash at the Pearls Gardens in Lekki Phase 1 on Saturday and another at the Paradise Boat Club, Victoria Island on Sunday.

But Police Commissioner Zubairu Muazu ordered the deployment of water-tight security to ensure the party did not hold and also arrest Bobrisky and other crossdressers or homosexuals who planned to attend.

The Nation gathered that five suspected members of Bobrisky’s club were arrested for breach of the public peace and indecency.

According to the police, the government would not allow continuous breach of existing laws, noting that allowing the public display of actions that could corrupt young people was inimical to national consciousness.

Earlier in the week, the Director-General of the National Council for Arts and Culture, Otunba Olusegun Runsewe, threatened to go after Bobrisky and others like him, describing the cross-dresser as “a disgrace to the nation.” Bobrisky replied by saying Runsewe was a small fry.

The police had earlier in the year warned all homosexuals to flee the country or be dealt with in accordance with the Anti-Same Sex Marriage Law which prescribes a 14-year jail term for all persons involved in a homosexual relationship.

Former Public Relations Officer of the Zone 2 Police Command, Mrs Dolapo Badmos, had said: “If you are homosexually inclined, Nigeria is not a place for you. There is a law here that criminalises homosexual clubs, associations, and organisations with penalties of up to 14 years in jail.

“So, if you are a homosexual in nature, leave the country or face prosecution. But before you say, ‘does this matter?’ Kindly note that anything against the law of the land is criminal and all crimes will be punished accordingly no matter how small you think it is.”

What the law says

The law Badmos is referring to is the Same-Sex Marriage (Prohibition) Act of 2013. It says a person who registers, operates or participates in gay clubs, societies or organisations, directly or indirectly makes a public show of same-sex amorous relationship in Nigeria commits an offence and is liable on conviction to a term of 10 years. Anyone convicted of entering into a same-sex marriage contract or civil union faces up to 14 years imprisonment.

Pronouns controversy

Following the police’s raid, Nigerians on social media were divided over the use of the pronoun he to refer to Bobrisky.

Bisi Alimi, a gay man and advocate for the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) rights cautioned that the right pronoun for Bobrisky is ‘she’ and ‘her’.

“Dear #Nigeria allies, the correct pronoun for #Bobrisky is “She/Her”. Using this will help reduce stigma and show that you really care. You can’t use a wrong pronoun and say you are an ally,” he tweeted.

“Just In: Bobrisky on the run as Police Storms. Shutdown venue if his 27th birthday celebration in Lekki, chase away everyone,” Iselaiye tweeted to which Ogunmuyiwa replied, “HER!!! Her pronouns are she/her!!! And this us transmisogynistic violence.”

Another user, @whoislateef, mockingly asked, “So which cell will they put Bobrisky Female cell: Naaaah Male cell: Honeymoon.”

What does the future hold for the like of Bobrisky?

A 2017 survey by NOI Polls compared attitudes towards LGBT people in Nigeria against a 2015 poll.

It found a seven per cent increase in acceptance of LGBT people, and a nine per cent rise to 39 per cent of those surveyed who think that LGBT people should be allowed equal access to public services, such as healthcare, education and housing.

However, the poll showed a four per cent increase to 90 per cent of Nigerians who support the criminalisation of same-sex relationships, and no change in the proportion of Nigerians who believe that the country would be a better place with no LGBT people, also 90 per cent.

Will Nigerian society ever accept cross-dressing and other LGBT lifestyles, such as Bobrisky’s? Only time will tell.

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No More Delays’ — Senate Leader Confirms State Police Bill Passage This Week

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The National Assembly is set to pass the constitutional amendment bill establishing state police this week, Senate Leader Opeyemi Bamidele has disclosed, describing the reform as long overdue in view of Nigeria’s worsening security challenges.

Speaking in an interview with journalists, the lawmaker representing Ekiti Central Senatorial District said the National Assembly had concluded consultations with key stakeholders and was ready to fast-track the amendment process.

According to him, the amendment would be separated from the broader constitutional review exercise to ensure speedy passage and transmission to the 36 state Houses of Assembly for ratification.

“A cross-section of Nigerians has made it abundantly clear that there cannot be a better time to establish state police than now. We have reached a firm conclusion that we will pass the constitutional amendment to make provision for state police, and this will come to fruition this week,” Bamidele said.

He disclosed that consultations had involved the National Assembly leadership, the Attorney-General of the Federation, the Chief of Staff to the President, the Inspector-General of Police and other critical stakeholders.

The Senate Leader also revealed that President Bola Tinubu and a majority of state governors support the proposal, expressing confidence that the required approval from two-thirds of state assemblies would be secured.

On the controversy surrounding calls for a probe into military spending amid rising insecurity, Bamidele defended the Senate’s decision to reject the motion, insisting that placing the armed forces under public scrutiny while they are actively engaged in counter-terrorism operations would be counterproductive.

He said the military was confronting an unconventional enemy and had continued to make sacrifices in the fight against terrorism despite difficult circumstances.

“We cannot put our military on trial in the middle of a war. Accountability mechanisms already exist through the Senate Committees on Defence, Army, Navy and Air Force, which carry out oversight responsibilities,” he stated.

Bamidele argued that significant progress was being made against insurgents, adding that recent attacks by terrorists reflected desperation arising from heavy losses suffered during military operations.

The Senate Leader also dismissed claims that the 10th National Assembly had become a “rubber stamp” of the Executive, saying lawmakers had consistently engaged the Presidency behind closed doors to resolve disagreements before bills reached the floor.

According to him, constructive collaboration between the legislature and the executive should not be mistaken for weakness.

“We are not a rubber stamp Senate. We simply chose to resolve disagreements privately rather than perform them publicly,” he said.

On electoral reforms, Bamidele maintained that the Electoral Act should not be amended in the heat of political contests, stressing that any review should take place after elections and without retroactive effect.

He also reaffirmed his support for the publication of legislators’ salaries and allowances, saying greater transparency would help dispel public misconceptions about lawmakers’ earnings and benefits.

Regarding anti-kidnapping legislation, Bamidele disclosed that the proposed Anti-Terrorism Bill and measures prescribing the death penalty for convicted kidnappers remain on course and would be concluded alongside related constitutional amendments.

Reflecting on the performance of the 10th Senate, he identified the controversy surrounding the suspension of a senator and allegations of gender insensitivity as one of the institution’s lowest moments.

However, he highlighted several legislative achievements, including tax reforms, the student loan scheme, and the establishment of new federal tertiary institutions across the country.

Bamidele expressed optimism that the Senate’s reforms, particularly the state police initiative and tax legislation, would strengthen national security, deepen democratic governance and provide long-term economic benefits for Nigerians.

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FG Accelerates Contractor Payments, Clears Over 1,240 Claims Below N100 Million

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The Federal Ministry of Finance says it has approved the payment of more than 1,240 contractors across ministries, departments and agencies (MDAs) following a verification and reconciliation exercise on outstanding obligations.

In a statement on Monday, Mary-Ann Duke, Senior Special Assistant on Communication and Press Secretary to the Minister of Finance, said the exercise was carried out to confirm valid claims and streamline payments.

According to her, contractors with verified claims of N100 million and below were given priority in the latest disbursement.

“The Federal Ministry of Finance has approved payments to more than 1,240 contractors, providing immediate liquidity support to businesses across the country and reinforcing the Federal Government’s commitment to meeting its financial obligations,” the statement reads.

The ministry said the payments are aimed at easing financial pressure on indigenous firms, particularly small and medium-scale enterprises (SMEs), enabling them to return to project sites, settle workers’ wages, and pay suppliers.

“Contractors prioritised for payment in the most recent batch are those with verified claims in the region of N100 million or less,” Duke said.

It added that more than N700 billion in verified obligations owed to local contractors has been processed in recent months.

The statement noted that about N436.6 billion was processed in May alone, describing it as a sharp increase in payment activity designed to improve liquidity and support economic recovery.

The ministry said prioritising smaller contractors was intended to widen the reach of payments across sectors and regions while sustaining jobs and ensuring the completion of ongoing projects.

It also said the latest disbursement would strengthen confidence among contractors, suppliers, and service providers working with the government.

In January, aggrieved contractors blocked access to the Ministry of Finance, preventing former Minister of State for Finance, Doris Uzoka-Anite, from entering the premises.

Six months later, the Senate set up a committee to engage the ministry over outstanding contractor debts.

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Shettima, Akume Set for Landmark Nigeria–Poland Football Watch Party; Polish Ambassador Praises Preparations — Adeboye

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Preparations have reached an advanced stage for the historic Nigeria–Poland Football Watch Party in Abuja, with the Ambassador of Poland to Nigeria, His Excellency Michal Cygan, inspecting the venue ahead of the event, while Vice President Senator Kashim Shettima, GCON, and Secretary to the Government of the Federation (SGF), Senator George Akume, CON, have officially confirmed their participation.

The landmark event, scheduled for Wednesday, June 3, 2026, at the VIP Lounge of the Moshood Abiola National Stadium, Abuja, is being organized by the Office of the Senior Special Assistant to the President on Grassroots Sports Development, Hon. Adeyinka Anthony Adeboye, in collaboration with the Polish Embassy in Abuja.

During an inspection visit to the venue, Ambassador Cygan met with Hon. Adeboye and members of the organizing committee to assess preparations and inspect facilities ahead of the highly anticipated football viewing experience, which is expected to attract diplomats, government officials, sports stakeholders, youth leaders, football enthusiasts, captains of industry, and members of the international community.

Expressing satisfaction with the level of preparation, the Polish envoy described the venue as a fitting location for an event designed to strengthen friendship and cooperation between Nigeria and Poland.

“I am very happy with the preparation and I truly love the venue. Everything looks ready for a wonderful event,” Ambassador Cygan said.

He noted that the watch party represents more than football, describing it as an opportunity to deepen friendship, cultural exchange, and cooperation between both nations.

“Tomorrow will be about friendship and unity. We are bringing together friends of Poland, members of the diplomatic community, sports stakeholders, and football lovers to celebrate the beautiful game and our growing relationship with Nigeria,” he added.

The ambassador further disclosed that several friends and partners of the Polish Embassy would attend the event, emphasizing the role of sports diplomacy in strengthening international relations and promoting youth engagement.

Adding further significance to the occasion, Vice President Kashim Shettima will attend as Chairman of the Day, while SGF Senator George Akume will serve as the Special Guest of Honour.

Speaking ahead of the event, Hon. Adeboye described their participation as a strong indication of the Federal Government’s commitment to sports development, youth empowerment, national unity, and international partnerships under President Bola Ahmed Tinubu’s Renewed Hope Agenda.

“The confirmation of the Vice President and the SGF clearly demonstrates the importance this administration places on sports—not merely as entertainment, but as a powerful tool for youth empowerment, diplomacy, peace-building, economic opportunities, and national development,” Adeboye said.

According to him, President Tinubu’s vision continues to prioritize young people through initiatives aimed at creating opportunities, promoting inclusion, and strengthening grassroots engagement across the country.

“Mr. President believes strongly in the potential of Nigerian youths and understands the transformative role sports can play in creating jobs, promoting unity, and projecting Nigeria positively on the global stage,” he added.

Adeboye also commended Vice President Shettima for his commitment to youth inclusion and national cohesion, noting that his presence would further inspire young Nigerians and stakeholders within the sports ecosystem.

He similarly praised Senator Akume for his continued support for developmental programmes that positively impact youths and strengthen national integration.

Describing the initiative as more than a football gathering, the SSA said the watch party is designed to serve as a strategic platform for friendship, cultural exchange, youth engagement, and bilateral cooperation.

“Football remains a universal language capable of bringing people together beyond borders, religion, and ethnicity. Through this event, we are strengthening relationships and creating a platform for unity, friendship, and international cooperation,” he said.

The initiative follows recent engagements between the SSA’s office and the Polish Embassy focused on grassroots sports development, youth empowerment, sports exchange programmes, and broader bilateral partnerships between Nigeria and Poland.

Guests are expected to begin arriving at 6:45 p.m., while kickoff for the Nigeria–Poland international friendly match is scheduled for 7:45 p.m.

With the attendance of Vice President Shettima, SGF Akume, senior government officials, diplomats, and key stakeholders now confirmed, anticipation continues to build for what many observers are describing as one of Abuja’s most significant sports diplomacy events of the year.

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